Showing posts with label Teri. Show all posts
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Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Premier Procrastination

For those of you that don't know me, I am going to let you in on a couple tidbits of info about me. If I were to list the my top characteristics they would be that I'm:
  • Highly organized
  • Very detail oriented
  • A take charge person
  • Methodical & systematic
  • An over-achiever
  • Creative
With all of these superb qualities I have never turned in a late assignment or been late with a project for work or any organization I'm a part of. With that being said, I am a premier procrastinator. I don't think I was like this when I was a kid. I remember my mom saying that I used to drive her crazy with school projects because no matter how much time I had to work on them, I wanted to do them RIGHT NOW! My how things have changed!!!

Right now I  have a list a mile long of tasks I should be doing:
  • Instructor sheets for Intro. to Education and Reading Comprehension
  • Update my Reading Plus introduction information
  • Get my schedule set for Reading Comprehension for the semester
  • Get Weeks 2-15 lessons done for Intro. to Education
  • Create the new lessons (already planned out in my head) for Reading Comprehension online
  • Make the SI bookmarks 
  • Make the SI posters 
Yet here I sit blogging away about procrastination. Well, I do have a goal this year to blog once a week so at least I'm accomplishing one of my goals!

When my oldest son, A.J. was in high school we were talking about procrastination. He shared with me that he remembered when he learned what the word procrastination meant. He was just a little guy, probably 6 or 7. He said he was in Sunday School class and his teacher, Ethel, used the word procrastination. Ever the inquisitive child he asked her what it meant. She said something like, "It means waiting until the last possible minute to do something because you don't have to do it right now." He said he thought to himself, "I am good at that. I like to procrastinate." I got a good laugh out of that. Imagine a child that young recognizing the fact that they tend to procrastinate. I will add that A.J. is the ultimate procrastinator. He didn't get in any hurry to enter this world. I remember when I was in labor and the doctor told me it was time to push. I pushed for an hour and 45 minutes. A.J. must have realized there was no reason to be pushed out right then so he took his merry time, much to my chagrin. As a mother, he used to drive me crazy because he never did his homework until the absolute last minute no matter how much I hounded him. It's a good thing he's not the type to stress out about anything because it was nothing for him to be working on an assignment 10 minutes before it was due. The difference between him and myself is that when I've procrastinated and am that close to a deadline, I get really stressed about it. Not A.J. He just rolls with it like it is no big deal. I hate to think that I am the one that passed on the procrastination characteristic to him, but I guess I'll have to take the credit for it. 

So along with all of the superb qualities I possess, I must add I'm a premier procrastinator to the list. Alas, I must end this blog promptly because deadlines are looming and I have procrastinated long enough!

Sunday, January 5, 2014

A Snapshot Into The New Year - Quests for 2014

As the new year was approaching I was thinking a lot about 2014. I am now 50 years old and as I'm aging I'm realizing NOW is the time. If I want to do something I need to do it now. I don't have any huge plans, my life is pretty simple. We (Gary and I) are limited in what we can do because of our financial situation. No, we are not having financial problems, but we still have some debt we are working on getting rid of and we've made a commitment to pay off our debt and save money for any extra-curricular activities/vacations we might do. That means we stay home most of the time. Our big splurge is to go to Family Video every couple of months and rent $12 worth of movies! In the summer we have bike dates. We ride our bikes to the donut shop to have breakfast or to Dairy Queen to get an ice cream cone. Our simple life is fine with me, I learned a long time ago, money is not what makes you happy.

Anyway, back to the point of this post. Looking back on the last year, I see some things I'd like to change in my life, and I can think of some new things I'd like to do, but haven't done because it is just easier to come home, sit, get on the computer and spend my time interacting online. Most of my goals for the coming year are small, but I believe if I am consistent in achieving these small goals by the end of the year I will feel like I've accomplished a lot and have become a better person.

In the spirit of Nerd Fitness (I love this site) I am going to create quests in different categories of my life. Then I'll have specific goals that will help me achieve each quest. Some of them will be for the year and some of them will be more short term.

Flylady Quest: Keep the house organized & out of CHAOS (Can't Have Anyone Over Syndrome)
Flylady is an awesome site that can help you learn the tricks to help you keep your 
     house clean & organized by spending a few minutes a day doing "missions."      
  1.  Shine the sink every night before going to bed.
  2. Swish and swipe my bathroom daily (hair off the floor too).
  3. Swish and swipe Gary's bathroom on even days.
  4. Do one load of laundry daily, including drying, folding and putting it away.
  5. Clean off the hot spots.
  6. Deal with the mail every day.
Relationship Quest: Spend time making others in my life know they are important to me
  1. Have a "date" two times a month with Gary. One time I plan/one time he plans.
  2. Send two cards to friends or family monthly.
  3. Call two people monthly just to say hi.
  4. Contact A.J. and Daniel at least once a week.
Personal Quest: Do things I enjoy, things that will make me feel a sense of accomplishment and things that will make me grow as an individual.
  1. Scrapbook once a month.
  2. Rubberstamp once a month.
  3. Blog once a week, even if it is just a partial blog that needs more work before it is posted.
  4. Read 30 minutes daily from a non-fiction book.
  5. Work on a "you've been putting it off" project once a month.
Financial Quest: Pay more attention to our money - having knowledge keeps you in check and you know it :-)
  1. Once a week, update the orange notebook with money spent during the previous week.
  2. Set up a "Rewards" account ($20 monthly). Rewards can only be purchased if earned and if there is money for them. 
Professional Quest: Get all those projects done that you've been saying you were going to do!!!
  1. Get your online Reading Comprehension class DONE! Do at least two lessons a week.
  2. Apply Quality Matters to your online Reading Comprehension class. Due date August 1, 2014.
  3. Get the Reading Buddy lessons done. One lesson complete per week starting Jan. 6th.
  4. Develop a Reading Buddies class.
  5. Develop a combined Reading Comp/General Studies course class.
Food Quest: Eat for health
  1. Eat to be healthy, eat Primal 80% of the time, but make some conscious choices to enjoy the foods you don't typically eat.
  2. Prepare one new recipe weekly and post it on your blog.
  3. Drink water and plenty of it (this is a new habit I've been doing for several weeks, and I don't want to stop).
Exercise Quest: Get stronger and more fit
  1. Complete your first Nerd Fitness Challenge starting Jan. 6th. Continue to level up my fitness by doing the challenges throughout the year (complete at least 4 NF Challenges in 2014).
  2. Do a 15 minute (minimum) Yoga workout at least 3 times weekly.
  3. Complete at least the first level of the Dumbbell Workouts (Beta version) in Nerd Fitness Academy.
  4. Running: Keep running in your fat-burning zone (HR 126-135). One run per week can be at a comfortable pace.
Wow, that seems like a lot, but with focus and determination I can do it. Now let's get on with the new year and see what the next 360 days will bring. 


Never A Girly-Girl, But I Had Dolls

Just before Christmas I had to go to Dillons to pick up my husband's prescriptions. As I was making my way out of the store I saw a display of dolls on sale. Something about the doll caught my attention. She could walk. Wow, that brought back some memories. I used to have a doll that could ride a horse and a tricycle and if you laid her on her back she would kick and wiggle her legs. I remember she had pink pants and a yellow and pink shirt and blond hair. I headed home and got on the internet to see if I could find pictures of the doll from my childhood memories. Jackpot, you can find anything on the internet!

   
Tippee-Toes Doll 
After doing some Googling I came across some pictures. She was called Tippee-Toes. I don't think I was much of a doll kind of girl since I wasn't really a girly-girl, but I do remember Tippee-Toes. She was so cool and I'm sure as a 5 year old I was quite impressed with the fact that she could ride a tricycle and a horse.


Thinking about my Tippee-Toes Doll got me to thinking about the other dolls I had when I was a little girl. There weren't many of them, like I said I wasn't a girly-girl, but I remember three dolls that I had as a little girl. Besides Tippee-Toes, I had Buffy and Crissy.

My Buffy doll had her very own miniature Mrs. Beasley doll. That was so cool! A doll with a doll! The Buffy doll was based on the little girl character from the TV show "Family Affair." Mrs. Beasley was very important to Buffy in the show so it would stand to reason that the Buffy doll would have a Mrs. Beasley doll. Of course the toy manufacturers produced a "real size" Mrs. Beasley doll just like the one on the TV show and a lot of little girls had that Mrs. Beasley doll, but I didn't get that one, just the miniature one that went with my Buffy doll. My Buffy doll had different clothes too. She had a short dress that was white with red polka dots and a red ruffled skirt. She also had a sleeveless orange jumpsuit with a short-sleeved white shirt that went under it. I think she had some pajamas too, but I don't remember what they looked like. Oh, I mustn't forget, my Buffy doll could talk. You just pulled the little string at the back of her neck and she would say something. I'm sure back during those days (late '60's/early '70's) a talking doll was impressive, at least to a 5 or 6 year old it was impressive.

Besides Tippee-Toes and Buffy, I only remember one other doll that I had. Her name was Crissy and she had red hair. Crissy was amazing because her hair could be either short or long, and if it was short you could make it grow by yanking on it. Well actually you were probably supposed to pull gently, but I thought it was pretty neat to just yank it, remember I wasn't a girly-girl. Then to make her have short hair again you just had to turn this dial on her back...and magic she had short hair...to my 6 year old mind it was magic! Crissy was really tall, had long legs, and a blue satin outfit, and she had that magic hair,that made her a spectacular doll.



Although I remember these three dolls, I don't really remember playing with them much. I'm sure I did, but by the time we moved to the farm (when I was 7) I was more of the jeans, cowboy boots, let me go outside tom-boy girl, with the exception of my Barbie Dolls. I loved my Barbie dolls and probably played with them until I was 10 or 11.
I remember being so excited the year I got my Barbie Camper. Now Barbie, Ken, and Skipper could go camping. I played with them at the top of the stairs and the stairwell was the lake. The could swim for ever in that deep lake. After their long day of swimming they'd go back to the campsite, cook dinner on the camper cookstove, then curl up in their sleeping bags and go to sleep for the night, only to repeat the adventure the next morning.

My barbies had quite the collection of clothes too. Barbie even had a pretty lacy dress that worked as her wedding dress. I must have been obsessive-compulsive even as a child, because my Barbie suitcase was always neat and organized and I knew where every outfit was. I spent hours and hours changing their clothes taking them on adventure after adventure. Even as I grew older my barbies had a soft spot in my heart. I never got rid of them. I really thought I'd end up keeping them for my own kids. I'm sure A.J. and Daniel would have loved getting my barbie collection, lol!

Since my mom and dad were still living at the farm and had plenty of room to store stuff I just left my barbies and the camper out there. Since I had boys and I knew they wouldn't want them I guess I was thinking maybe I'd save them for my grandkids. Who knows! When something brings us so much pleasure as a child I think we think that surely these toys/things will bring the same pleasure to someone else so we hang on to them hoping to bring that same pleasure to our kids or grandkids.

So what happened to all these dolls that were part of my life as a child? I don't really know what happened to Tippee-Toes, Buffy and Crissy. That is a question I'll have to ask my mom. We never had garage sales, so maybe she donated them to Goodwill or gave them to someone. Since I'd hung on to my Barbie collection I was able to pass that on to a special little girl. There were two kids who came to our church with their aunt when I was a young mother. At that time I was teaching Children's Church so I got to know Melvin and Amber. I had a soft spot in my heart for them. I don't think they had a lot, not like most kids did during those days. One day their house burned down and they lost everything. I don't know if the family had insurance, but it didn't matter to me, I knew exactly what I was going to do with my Barbie collection. The next time I made it to my parent's house I packed all my Barbie stuff up and the next time I saw Amber I gave it all to her. I don't know if Amber had as much fun with the barbies as I did, but in my imagination she did.